Yesterday I wrote a bit about trauma-informed organizations that seek to ensure that the ministries they provide neither harm recipients or staff members. That post focused on para-church organizations serving highly-traumatized populations and encouraged them to do some self-evaluation. But, today I’d like to add just a few additional thoughts on how churches might improve care for traumatized people […]
“Why should we pursue this? After all, so much is going on globally with Trauma Healing. Should I leave this to someone else? It feels all uphill some days and there are some naysayers…people who think it won’t ‘work’ with our vets…But yet, every time I lead a training I have mothers, fathers, brothers, spouses of combat veterans who say “I wish there was something like this for my ___(son, daughter, husband). They need help.” What should we do?” I whined to my very, very patient (military veteran) husband about six months ago.
And turned to see his head down in his hands, eyes closed, remembering when he first encountered the Healing the Wounds of Trauma material three years ago…
We stumbled upon the training in Kenya, thinking it would help us in pastoral care (it did). We thought we were learning it for others (we were, sort of). But we found out very quickly that it was for us, too.
I remember every evening after the day’s session, Mark would go straight home and sleep until 7 the next morning. The whole week was like surgery. One night he told me he did not know if he could take it.
But the next day came the cross. We took our pain to the cross.
Later he told me that he could feel healing happening in his own heart. He said distinctly “I wish every military veteran could experience this. Wouldn’t it be great if someone would write a military story set?” (now keep in mind we were using the classic African stories and they were powerful). That was three years ago. I had forgotten. But he hadn’t. So he did what all good husbands do, and he reminded me.
In April we embarked on a process that has been years in the making. In collaboration with the American Bible Society and SIL, SIM USA gathered a small team to begin work on the US military contextualization of the Healing the Wounds of Trauma material -the basis for the Trauma Healing program.
Our original team of four consisted of three prior active duty military veterans (including one female Vietnam MASH nurse), two are currently reserve Chaplains (one Army and one Navy just for balance:) and a military spouse (that’s me:). We met for two and a half days to construct an outline for the military set of stories, discussing characters, story development, important content for each specific lesson, and also laying a foundation for new material on Moral Injury, Re-entry, and Spiritual Resilience.
As ideas flowed freely and characters became oh-so-real, the walls of our conference room began to look something like this:
Now that the foundation is laid, the next step is completion of the five core stories and lessons which will then be piloted in healing groups. Mark will lead at least one of those healing groups locally. Other trained veteran facilitators will lead at least two other groups. We are looking for feedback from military combat veterans and possibly spouses or family members. Because of the construct of the stories, I am hopeful that I can also pilot a group for combat veteran’s spouses. The third step will be finishing stories for the entire 12 lessons (as well as working to flesh out the brand new material for Moral Injury, Re-entry, and Resilience) by the middle of September.
Finally, we hope to host an Initial Equipping session for 30-40 participants sometime in the Spring of 2017. This will be a training to equip local church and community leaders to use the material in small groups or individually with combat veterans. This will ideally be hosted at a church near a military installation (Shout out to churches in the Camp Lejeune, NC area!).
Already, there’s a lot of interest in this contextualization within the United States. But it will undoubtedly pave the way for translation and further contextualization in other countries and with combat veterans worldwide. Certain things cross every culture.
Unfortunately, war is one of them.
For several weeks, life for us had been busy – crazy busy. SIMGo training for new personnel, skype calls, debrief of cross cultural workers returning from their fields of service, presentations in Minnesota for a Missionary Pastoral Care Conference and then the Global Community of Practice meeting in Philadelphia for Trauma Healing. Finally, several days of training in the Children’s TH program -also in Philadelphia. And then preparing for a five-day Equipping session in Charlotte and an upcoming trip to Liberia!!! On top of that, the normal family activities: driving people to practices, work, school, doctors and dentist appointments, friends over, church activities, and more. Our plates were spinning.
Then, one night about three weeks ago, we suddenly and dramatically gained a new perspective. I had just settled into a very deep sleep Continue reading
Isaac wrote the following essay for his elementary English Language Arts class to tell about what his parents do… just for the record, I did not know until AFTER he turned it in. So here it is -just like he wrote it- no mom spell or content checks!
“Misionaries are people who travel to different places to help do something and let people know about God. i was and i am a missionarie and i’ve lived in kenya and a lot of other cool Places. We go around the world and teach the bible but other missionaries do different stuff Continue reading
Recently, a series of blogs came across my computer that REALLY resonated. These phrases were spoken by well-meaning people. But sometimes the very best thing to do for a hurting person is Continue reading
“I have heard all about You, Lord, and I am filled with awe by the amazing things You have done…” (Hab.3:1)
When we stepped off the plane, heavy grey clouds hung low in the sky. Continue reading
“God is angry and far away”
“God is unable or unwilling to help us.”
“It is the fault of the Christians because they refuse to worship our gods.”
“Shiva, the god of destruction, is unhappy and must be appeased.”
These are the comments we heard over and over again in Nepal Continue reading